Saturday, June 18, 2011

Virginity Myth Makes Fear

Stories that virginity could be lost due to a fall from a bicycle was pervasive at this girl, until she was terrified before her wedding day. In fact, there is no scientific evidence that virginity is lost due to fall off the bike.

"I am a 27-year-old girl, plans to marry this year. The problem is, I always worried, even scared of my situation. I was not a virgin anymore, despite the loss of my virginity not like having sex free.

When he was 12 years old, I had an accident, falling off the bike. Until now I still afraid to say to prospective husbands, afraid he does not believe and accuse me of the absurd.

My question is, how do I convince my husband that I am not a virgin because of the accident? I wonder if she would accept me and believe one hundred percent? Why virginity is still very dominant in Indonesia? "